Struggling to write your wedding vows? You’re not alone.

Eric

If you’re sat staring at a blank page, wondering how on earth you’re supposed to sum up a lifetime of love in a few lines, don’t panic (AHHHHH, I KNOWWWW). Writing your wedding vows is one of the trickiest parts of planning a wedding, and you’d be surprised how many couples feel exactly the same.

The good news? There are some simple tricks to help the words flow.

1. Start with your story

One of the easiest ways to begin is by sharing a little story about your journey together. Was it the night you got caught in the rain with no taxi for miles? The time you caught the train in the wrong direction but laughed all the way to a surprise destination? These snapshots make your vows feel personal, warm and instantly engaging.

2. Keep it short and sweet

There’s no need to turn your vows into a Shakespearean monologue (Oh My). A few heartfelt lines are often far more powerful. Simple, sincere words hit home harder than something over-polished. Remember, you’re speaking to the person you love, not handing in a formal essay.

3. Balance promises with humour

At the end of the day, vows are a promise. By all means, say “I’ll always stand by your side” but balance it with something fun, like “I promise not to nick the duvet” or “I promise to always make you a proper cuppa when you need one.” Don’t be afraid of humour, it cuts through the nerves and gives everyone a smile, which makes the moment even more memorable.

4. Say it out loud

Reading on paper and speaking out loud are two different things. Practice reading aloud in advance can help you spot clunky phrasing and make you feel more confident when it’s your turn at the altar. Bonus: you’ll also get a sense of timing so you don’t end up with vows longer than the ceremony itself 😉 .

5. Don’t overthink it

This is the big one. Your vows don’t need to be “perfect”, they just need to be you. A touch of honesty, a dash of humour, and a whole lot of heart will always win the day.

Make the moment last forever

Now that your vows are ready and the big day’s nearly here, there’s a way to make sure those words never fade. With Sound Souvenir, you can capture the audio of your vows and frame it in a beautiful design, the perfect keepsake to relive that once-in-a-lifetime moment every day.